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Understanding between the lines】 【pain [in the arena]


Understanding between the lines】 【pain [in the arena] <ul id=\You can do this, we can grasp their own health, of, you can not grasp the gifted. \Often will ask: Since the impact of pain than joy for us is great, then why had it tough and some have still not changed? The answer is that he suffered enough to eat, that is the suffering he has not yet reached \If you have to stand for a certain behavior, then they get rid of this behavior, it is likely the pain you feel no friends to reach a critical point, and not want to take down the results. When the pain we feel can bring this point when it is our friends, prompted us to be happy and come up with new actions, and finally produce new results. This phenomenon is not limited to interpersonal relations, in the physiology is very likely you will have had such experience. For example, because the body fat you have to squeeze into the aircraft seat, wearing the clothes no less than in the past, the stairs to breathe, and finally one day you deeply to realize that the inconvenience of life of obesity, acute and tarnished exclaimed: \! \What made you make that decision? Is it because you do not want no longer be such a pain, but did not want the joy of fat due to it before?
Of course, there are degrees of pain and pleasure points, for example, \is strong or weak, are we to make decisions always have to test a factor. Similarly, happy when we make a decision to play the same angle and pain, many of the actions of our lives is to be expected because of the fun commenced. Degree of happiness but also the strength of the points, but what kind of happiness is strong, what kind of happiness is weak, it all depends on the subjective judgments. For example you want to lunch to eat outside, through the park in time to have a Symphony Orchestra playing Beethoven's music, you are not stop to listen? This is likely to depend on your tastes in music depends. If you like classical music, it is possible to sit down and refused to eat, because they can hear the music for you, then it is a happy thing in; but if you like the music the door, it may only be glance at it to go, because it could not get much interest you; but if you really are hungry,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], sick sto[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]h, this time even if you are interested in classical music again, probably a little longer is painful. In each of our lives, often there will be something like this, and we think that when Debu what action to take, think about what consequences it will bring us.
Students living in the most important art is pain and pleasure that the forces that influence every one of our students. Driven by this power, different values, for the pain and pleasure has a different interpretation. Students have learned, we learned the most important is to understand what makes us happy, what makes us miserable, because each of the different learned, which have different behavior.
Only through suffering, to realize that life's hard-won, driving a safe haven in order to truly understand the sea. Life is a smile to face the reality, that is, look in the future over the obstacles. Even a genius, he wails down the first tone is never a good poem, the wind force to bring the flames, but off its strike. Only through the pain temper, rather be a pain to listen to the truth, do not listen to sweet lies, lack of an eagle on the Ko's heroic, I'm Born with confidence, no lack of Campanula do encourage each other's wind blew. Let light illuminate the world, so that knowledge illuminate the students exercise, do not sigh Health bumpy road, and each time will have to pay a certain harvest. Do the wind,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], happy, not arrogance is not proud of setbacks, the indomitable; the world the so-called genius is the result of hardship, hard work, the result of continuous learning, there is nothing the world had \are hard-working, eternal commitment, trust their own results; learning is endless suffering for the boat, the book mountain road to the trails.
Sister Teresa of India is very concerned about the poor, and when to see them suffer just like myself suffer with it, when to see India's unfair system of social class, her heart like a knife, Only they can lend a helping hand, she felt pain relief. To Teresa nuns, the students the meaning of happiness is to help India's poor city,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], where millions lived in crowded places suffering from extreme poverty, hunger and disease ravaged the people. In her view, but happy to travel through knee-high mud and smelly, dirty and shabby low into the house, holding as malaria and dysentery in children suffering from thin body. Benjamin sad days of her pregnant, drove her to help the lower classes from the pain, but also to reduce her pain, relatively speaking, which can make her happy. She believes that the true meaning, is that devote themselves to the needy, it is the highest in the operation of Health.
This emphasis on physical beauty Natelangpu enjoyment and Teresa nuns who like compared to noble humanitarian, you are likely to think that some nondescript, but if pain and pleasure from this point of view, their behavior really is a second context to be found. Although his second of the growth environment and family background influence their students how many would choose, but the most fundamental reason is that they have their own quality standards identified. Identified by your pain and happiness, determine your life.
I was born of the most important decisions is very small but when it was that knowledge in the supreme happiness of life. I think that as long as can find ideas to change their behavior and knowledge, then I want what you can, and knowledge is my pleasure to avoid pain and secret. Quest for knowledge over the years,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so I know the mystery of a class act, which helped me to change life, to me and many links together. I also learned knowledge \Real value at any time the opportunity to share with the surrounding, which makes me happy and satisfied. This way I give rise to another kind of happiness, is to own the knowledge learned to teach other, so that they can get high-quality students. The purpose of this is I was born, I was born is the highest level of happiness.
Pain and pleasure is how to affect our living? To the drug, for example, we are happy for it, or the pain, cognition may have profound impact on our students. Similarly, this principle also be used in your drink, smoke, international relations, and even you for the trust.
If you are a doctor, it is because in this industry many years ago that makes you happy, so they made \the doctor that the door to bring their joy to the industry: stop the suffering of patients, cure a disease disease, who saved a life, in addition to the joy and fun to the community's respect for their Shangqie This is another one of their Li layer. Musicians who were willing to devote efforts in this line, but few other things that can make them even more than music was happy. Philanthropist is happy to help vulnerable groups such as the protection of life and learning, awareness of life intended to allow them to help the music. As for the entrepreneurs of happiness, then from the decision to bring more employment opportunities for society,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], society needs to produce more product, more to improve their lives.
That is great if it can be painful and connects to any act or habit, then we will try every means to get rid of that kind of behavior or habits, if we can use the pain and pleasure power, then the students will be able to significantly change.
\─ ─ Aurelio Darius
Class is the only planet to live a rich inner life of animals, he often does not like to see how the external environment, but by his own interpretation, to identify themselves and decide future action. The reason why our class is different from other creatures, but because of the transformation with a strong ability to any thing or idea can be converted or changed to make themselves feel happy or useful. And our strongest ability is to turn their first-hand experience with other experience to create a completely different from any way, to show the various aspects of life. Thus only can change the brain's nerve chain, so that pain into happiness or joy into pain.
And one of his hunger strike in a cage, he has thirty days for some reason did not eat any food, the results can live. In the * body of the suffering of his very large, but this was able to attract public attention, and he therefore to be happy, the result will be suffering for the pleasure of the offset. If the range is further reduced a bit, some were willing to endure the torture * the body, but because the body can get the joy of exercise, so that strict self-denial of tempering into a long meeting, which is why they are so dedicated, can long endure pain, because they can get to be happy.
We can not dance with the changes in the environment, because students do not decide their own direction, this situation is just like a public computer, no bad can enter the program as seven or eight. The behavior of each of us, whether intentionally or unintentionally, are subject to pain and pleasure of this power, and the sources of this influence childhood friend, his father, teacher, friend, movie or TV hero of the film and various other, they unwittingly created the effect you. Some may not say a word when the school an incident that took the game in a victory, an embarrassing scenes or subjects are the nine gates to the results is that you may have made a great impact thus shaping today's you. This conclusion: the hands of our students is the identification for the pain and pleasure.
When you look back, whether we can recall that there is an experience that shaped the nerve chain of you made this? Experience that gives you what kind of meaning? If you were unmarried You are a pleasure to see the marriage of adventure, or whether the marriage as a heavy family responsibilities? night at the table when you eat as is an opportunity to supply added to the body, or is the big meal when the only source of happiness?
\In psychology, psychological style, psychology should be enough to prove it. Our behavior is indeed to be pain or happiness directly, with reason totally unrelated. For example, tell you the reason to eat more chocolate on the body is not good, but we still eat, and why? Because our behavior is not accepted wisdom of the constraints, but controlled by the nervous system for the direct impact of pain or pleasure, this is The role of nerve chain, which determines how we do. Although we believe that doing things by reason, but most of the case is controlled by the thread, which determines our idea of doing things.
Many times we hope are not dominated by threads, like a good diet on body fat, but that many can not, because they feel that is very painful. If we want to solve a problem, but can not create this problem for the \Weak with tears, and consoled himself with the strong sweat yourself. Why? That pain or pleasure, we do not bring the pain sets in the old set of habits and the happiness in the new act, then any change can not be sustained. Do not forget we have said earlier, they will want to avoid pain than to be happy, just like dieting alone will only have a temporary effect, because the pleasure to get good material to endure far less pain of the current food . Diet in order to be sustained, we need the pain sets in high volume and high-fat eating behavior, so will never have dared to eat at the same time sets the happy eating nutritious food, moderate and physical health of those materials, that is because do not believe in no matter how good the food tastes as good material, and thus \
From this reason, we can know, as long as the pain or pleasure can connected with anything, we can quickly change their ideas, thread, or habits. Take for example smoking cessation, for example, you have to smoke the pain sets in, and the happiness set in smoking cessation, something you will have the ability to do so, but because you are happy to set long-term behavior of the smoke that comes to quit smoking When will feel pain, and thus difficult to effectively quit smoking. However, if you quit smoking with one of those talks, will know that smoking behavior can in fact be able to quit within a day, as long as you can truly change the meaning of smoking, but it is no longer a pleasure a pain.
If students do not plan it then let him mercy. There is a Madison Avenue New York, United States, its major task is to influence our understanding of suffering or happiness, in that road every advertising or public relations companies are well aware of their consumer behavior is not intellectual understanding of the product, but that they should be the product thread. Based on this view, these companies are good at using a variety of music, video, color, and other tools to stir up the consumer thread should be, thus achieving the purpose of sale. Their approach is to have a thread to the top * of the time, came a timely and continuous product image to make it, and their high-pitched thread connected together.
Advertising industry knows that if the minds of consumers feeling happy, then they do not care about may be suffering, which is why some of the ads is they call a \because their products sell :''\to wear them when the work is difficult to your humble, but today it is showing what look it? has long been the darling of inter represents one,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stylish and North Korea. you've seen Levi's 510 jeans ads? is not consumption of wind and incomprehensible to Kande Yan? But after reading this ad you will certainly have left a distinct impression that jeans, because it is very a \surprise, wonder Levi jeans in the world today,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], according to market the sale of the first male.
This can affect the world view and the power of consumer buying habits, in fact, forces that influence our behavior, as we have to control the power to determine our behavior, it all depends on whether we have This will, if we do not have such intention, then it had been determined to control soil. If we want to control by their own students, then have to advertising in the hearts of the impact of learning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and this is the horse we can do. You just do not want the pain and acts together and make this a very strong will to achieve the degree of happiness and want to follow the behavior together, practiced by such a complex, and finally you must be able to After a natural change in behavior.
Most only take into account when making a decision regardless of the immediate future, the results did not get happy, they are suffering, the fact that all the world if you want meaningful work, it must endure the pain of . You have to get through the immediate fear and lead, according to their own values or standard surface to look at the future. You have to remember anything we did not make the pain and suffering is so that our fear of suffering the same token, do not have any thing will make us happy, and really make us happy is the happy grasp. Nothing will affect us, but we face the real impact of their \If we are to look only in front, then the future is difficult to grasp; if we want to get long-term happiness, you must endure the pain temporarily. If you want to have a fit if material, it would have under the painstaking training, perhaps at first you feel a little stand, but after some time will be fame or fortune. To have to endure any pain, such as career, interpersonal relations, a self-confidence, physical training areas, and making money, but you how to endure pain, made the will to achieve their goal? The first is to be determined As long as you can from time to time to adjust their own, sooner or later the pain will be turned into joy.
\to get rid of its control, but ultimately to no avail. \Why are not satisfied with the current situation clearly, but they were not willing to try to change it? That is because they know that any change will bring them to another unknown, to know more than most for holding A psychology of fear, fear that it will bring unexpected pain. Have a saying: \things, no wonder we are reluctant to take action to change their fate and future of unpredictable disasters.
If you want to have good interpersonal relationships, it would have to overcome the fear of being rejected or hurt; if you want to set up their own business, then have braved the risk of failure. The fact that we can say that the majority of students do something worthy of their traditional ideas are illegal, although this will make you feel fear because they do not know, but if we are to meritorious students, it would have for the ability of fear. Often controlled by our fears, so that's difficult to achieve the dream of one day to fly for some to not dare, because they always Payouyitian it will fall to this concern, however it is unreasonable. Perhaps their fear is from the past have had such experiences, their own or see the future Xia Xiang is just such a crash newspapers affected by news that a plane did not dare, it is full of fear they would be control. We should know that we are not living in the past experience, not imagined living in the future, but in fact living in the present. Remember, do not make us any pain, and not to let our pain is \
Pain is a book, you need to seriously understand and grasp, the only way to \taste of life, from the vulgar and shallow by floating;
Pain, can temper the will; pain, it can be the vitality of life, thinking inspired touch; pain, more like a good agent, so that they awake from too much happiness in the ... ...
Pain is an innate sense of life, self-appreciation of the life of the crystallization of the pain through the body as an individual and the birth of the contradictions. Because joy 乍现 to fall, walk the most urgent are the best times. Pain will closely with you through the long and short trip students, or will you down, or will you hold up high.
After a painful experience to the students really difficult and hot and sour bitter sweet life, which encourage students from a sense of the meaning of life and worked hard, courage to move forward. The students did not receive the test and witness the pain is an extremely lacking, can not reflect the value of life, endowed with life and sense of well-being.
Pain, you can do to vent, silent tears. There Leiquan top of joy, sorrow Light the abyss there. Health and inevitably ill-fated, luck. Children do not cry easily, because not yet reached the sad, though promises a good harvest, more sleepy bored to feeling of sadness. After the pain, got up from the tears, and certainly is a new self, do not lose heart, not hungry, only the strong can do to control the fate of the strong mix water with clay; only the strong can Losing Gains; only the strong, smiling students to be competent life, to forge ahead, never stop, life was endless.

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